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Finding work when I got to
Los Angeles
was not really difficult. It was finding the right employer that
proved to be elusive. I was not choosy with work. I was willing
to try on jobs even those that I have no experience on or jobs
that Filipinos won’t ordinarily do in the Philippines.
In spite of this mind set, my first two were disappointing and
disheartening. First, I found myself working in the company of
co-workers who were abusive to the patients in the facility.
Then, I worked for a Filipino who took advantaged of my
immigration status. I was not just overworked. I was underpaid.
The Filipinos’ devotion to the Virgin Mary never waiver or wane
even after migrating to another country. Our relationship with
God gets stronger and deeper for it is with Him that we find
comfort and solace whenever we get homesick, or when we find
ourselves on the verge of giving up or, at times, when we are
ready to give in to our vulnerabilities.
There is no loneliness we cannot take or any situation we would
not be able to handle if God is on our side. It is only with Him
that we feel safe, sound and secure.
On my days off, I joined the 2000 Hail Mary
prayer group. Composed mainly of Filipinos, this was one group
where I did not only get moral support but most importantly,
spiritual strength and guidance. “If I am meant to stay here,
please find me an employer who will treat me like family,” was
my only prayer request. It took a while but one day, the light
of dawn appeared. My prayer was answered. My stay in the
US
was finally affirmed and confirmed, so I thought.
“Sonia, you are here not to work for us
but to live with us,” were the welcoming words of my Jewish
employer. Right there and then, I knew that I have found THE
PERFECT EMPLOYER. I was ecstatic. I was in cloud nine. But
little did I know that the true test of my faith was still to
come, that the fiercest battle of my life was still to be
fought. Little did I realize that my perfect employer will have
the greatest impact in my life.
My first year in the US was like a roller coaster ride.
The highs and the lows were constant but the thought of the good
times supported me during my low points. The trials and
tribulations were regulars but they never pushed me off the
track. My faith was strong. My goal was clear. I will succeed. I
will survive come hell or high water.
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